The CHOOSE You Self-Discovery System for Successful Men

Join this transformative 12-week journey to master self-awareness and emotional intelligence, empowering you to naturally attract and maintain a lasting, meaningful relationship.

About:
Phillip Quinones

I'm Phillip Quinones, a seasoned coach with a background in Psychology from Georgia State University and Clinical Counseling Psychology from Brenau University. I dedicate my career to enhancing mental health and relationships, specifically helping women aged 25-45 navigate the complexities of dating and personal growth. My coaching practice is driven by a commitment to accessible healing and personal growth, where I empower clients to break free from destructive cycles and foster deeply satisfying relationships. Myapproach combines holistic, tailored support to address the unique challenges my clients face, ensuring transformative results.

Meet Dewan Ashford

I guide successful men in mastering their love lives through my CHOOSE You Self-Discovery Process.

My Mission?

Transforming driven men into confident, emotionally grounded partners ready for lasting love.

This Is Your Journey IF…

This Isn’t Your Path IF…

This Is Your Journey IF…

  • You’ve nailed the career game, but dating feels like a puzzle you can't crack.

  • You're ready to be the kind of guy who leads with confidence in love, not just business.

  • You want a real relationship where you feel truly understood, not just tolerated.

This Isn’t Your Path IF…

  • You're after a magical dating trick without putting in the work.

  • You’re content with how things are and don’t feel like changing your approach.

  • You shy away from looking at the emotional patterns driving your love life.

About: Phillip Quinones

I'm Phillip Quinones, a seasoned coach with a background in Psychology from Georgia State University and Clinical Counseling Psychology from Brenau University. I dedicate my career to enhancing mental health and relationships, specifically helping women aged 25-45 navigate the complexities of dating and personal growth. My coaching practice is driven by a commitment to accessible healing and personal growth, where I empower clients to break free from destructive cycles and foster deeply satisfying relationships. Myapproach combines holistic, tailored support to address the unique challenges my clients face, ensuring transformative results.

You’ll Love This IF.

  • You’re sick of situation ships, mixed signals, and emotionally unavailable men - but you don’t know how to break the cycle.

  • You know, deep down, you're meant for more than the pain and confusion of your past.

  • You're tired of repeating the same stories in different relationships - and you’re finally ready to break the cycle and rewrite your love story for good.

This Won’t Work IF…

  • You're looking for quick fixes or surface-level dating tips.

  • You're completely satisfied with your current dating experiences (if so, that's amazing!).

  • You're not open to exploring the deeper patterns that shape your relationships

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮'𝐥𝐥 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞.

Over 8 transformative weeks, we'll journey through:

Week 1

Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep falling for the same emotionally unavailable partner, this is the week it all starts to click.

You’ll finally:

✓ See the hidden emotional blueprint that’s secretly driving your relationship choices.

✓ Pinpoint the triggers that hijack your reactions—and how to stop them.

✓ Get crystal clear on what you actually need (and deserve) in love.

Week 2

Break the Cycle (For Good This Time)

It’s not “just bad luck” - you’ve been stuck in a pattern. But this week? We shatter it.

This is where transformation begins:

✓ Identify the old love story that’s been sabotaging your happiness.

✓ Let go of emotional baggage that keeps attracting the wrong people.

✓ Start fresh—with new beliefs and healthier wiring for love.

Week 3

Boundaries That Don’t Push People Away

Tired of feeling walked over—or worse, like you're too "much"? This is your turning point.

We’ll help you

✓ Set boundaries that feel authentic and empowering.

✓ Speak your truth without guilt or second-guessing.

✓ Protect your peace—without building emotional walls.

Week 4

Emotional Intelligence for Deep Love

Real connection requires emotional mastery—and this week, you’ll get the tools.

You'll learn how to:

✓ Read between the lines and spot what your partner really needs.

✓ Respond in a way that builds closeness, not conflict.

✓ Stay present even when emotions run high.

Week 5

Talk So They’ll Really Hear You

Because sometimes the right words are the difference between distance and deep connection.

You’ll master

✓ Asking for what you need—without fear or resentment.

✓ Handling hard conversations without things blowing up.

✓ Turning tension into trust and mutual understanding.

Week 6

Fall in Love With Yourself (First)

You are the love of your life—and it’s time you started acting like it.

This week helps you

✓ Silence that inner critic once and for all

✓Build rock-solid confidence from the inside out.

✓ Become the kind of person who attracts (and keeps) healthy love.

Week 7

Build a Vision That Calls In Real Love

No more settling. It’s time to raise the bar and call in something extraordinary.

This week, we’ll:

✓ Define what true love means to YOU (not anyone else).

✓ Clear limiting beliefs about what’s possible.

✓ Craft a love vision so magnetic, it pulls the right people in.

Week 8

Step Into the Love Life You Deserve

This isn’t a fantasy—it’s your new normal.

You’ll walk away with:

✓ A personalized roadmap for lasting love

✓ Confidence to navigate dating and relationships with ease.

✓ A whole new story—written by you, not your past.

What You'll Experience

Over 12 transformative weeks, we'll journey through:

MODULE 1:

Foundations of Self-Awareness

Identify your true desires and uncover patterns that have held you back in relationships.

In this breakthrough session you'll achieve:

  • Understand your relationship patterns and why they keep showing up.

  • Identify what truly matters to you in a partner and relationship.

  • Spot the behaviors holding you back and how to break them.

By the end of this session, you will:

  • Turn your career strengths into tools for personal growth in love.

  • Define clear relationship goals that align with your life vision.

  • Balance ambition with building lasting, meaningful relationships.

MODULE 2:
Aligning Career Success With Personal Goals

Learn how to translate your professional drive into meaningful personal growth and life balance.

MODULE 2:
Aligning Career Success With Personal Goals

Learn how to translate your professional drive into meaningful personal growth and life balance.

By the end of this session, you will:

  • Turn your career strengths into tools for personal growth in love.

  • Define clear relationship goals that align with your life vision.

  • Balance ambition with building lasting, meaningful relationships.

MODULE 3:
Emotional Intelligence Essentials

Build emotional awareness, express your feelings clearly, and handle personal interactions with confidence.

In this module, you will:

  • Recognize and name your emotions with greater accuracy.

  • Practice expressing your feelings in honest and healthy ways.

  • Learn to stay calm and manage emotions during tough situations.

This module will guide you to:

  • Overcome self-doubt and step into dating with genuine confidence.

  • Master tools to quiet negative inner voices and build self-trust.

  • Present your authentic self with boldness in any relationship.

MODULE 4:
Confidence and Self-Worth Recalibration

Silence self-doubt and redefine your confidence to approach relationships with ease.

MODULE 4:
Confidence and Self-Worth Recalibration

Silence self-doubt and redefine your confidence to approach relationships with ease.

This module will guide you to:

  • Overcome self-doubt and step into dating with genuine confidence.

  • Master tools to quiet negative inner voices and build self-trust.

  • Present your authentic self with boldness in any relationship.

MODULE 5:
Building Healthy Masculinity

Adopt healthier beliefs about masculinity and embrace vulnerability to deepen connections.

During this module, you will:

  • Challenge outdated beliefs about masculinity that hold you back.

  • Embrace vulnerability while staying strong and self-assured.

  • Redefine masculinity in a way that aligns with your true values.

This powerful session teaches you to:

  • Develop skills to share your needs and boundaries effectively.

  • Gain tools to handle difficult conversations with clarity and respect.

  • Listen better to create deeper, more understanding connections.

MODULE 6:
Effective Communication Mastery

Master the skills to express your needs, set boundaries, and navigate tough conversations effortlessly.

MODULE 6:
Effective Communication Mastery

Master the skills to express your needs, set boundaries, and navigate tough conversations effortlessly.

This powerful session teaches you to:

  • Develop skills to share your needs and boundaries effectively.

  • Gain tools to handle difficult conversations with clarity and respect.

  • Listen better to create deeper, more understanding connections.

MODULE 7:
Dating Skills for the Modern Man

Gain practical tools and strategies for navigating today’s dating scene with confidence.

This module focuses on helping you:

  • Learn strategies to navigate modern dating online and offline.

  • Craft a dating strategy to approach new connections with ease.

  • Get actionable feedback to sharpen your dating confidence.

This module is designed to help you:

  • Create meaningful bonds and move past small talk quickly.

  • Use your values to guide deeper, authentic conversations.

  • Build trust by showing your true self from the first interaction.

MODULE 8:
Creating Meaningful Connections

Move beyond surface-level interactions to build deep, genuine connections from the start.

MODULE 8:
Creating Meaningful Connections

Move beyond surface-level interactions to build deep, genuine connections from the start.

This module is designed to help you:

  • Create meaningful bonds and move past small talk quickly.

  • Use your values to guide deeper, authentic conversations.

  • Build trust by showing your true self from the first interaction.

MODULE 9:
Managing Rejection and Resilience

Overcome fear of rejection and bounce back stronger with tools to keep yourself motivated.

Together in this session we'll:

  • Shift your mindset to view rejection as a stepping stone, not a setback.

  • Gain tools to handle difficult conversations with clarity and respect.

  • Change the way you talk to yourself about setbacks and progress.

MODULE 10:
Transitioning From Dating to Commitment

Learn how to move from casual dating into meaningful, exclusive partnerships with clarity.

In this session, you’ll focus on:

  • Determine when you're ready to commit to a long-term relationship.

  • Align your values with your partner for smoother relationship transitions.

  • Decide how to move forward confidently into exclusivity.

In this session, you’ll focus on:

  • Determine when you're ready to commit to a long-term relationship.

  • Align your values with your partner for smoother relationship transitions.

  • Decide how to move forward confidently into exclusivity.

MODULE 10:
Transitioning From Dating to Commitment

Learn how to move from casual dating into meaningful, exclusive partnerships with clarity.

MODULE 11:
Conflict Resolution and Relationship Management

Approach disagreements calmly and turn challenges into opportunities to grow closer.

After working through this session, you will:

  • Handle disagreements with calmness and understanding.

  • Use empathy to strengthen bonds during tough moments.

  • Turn conflict into opportunities to rebuild trust and connection.

MODULE 12:
Creating a Vision for Partnership and Personal Growth

Develop a long-term action plan for sustaining love and continuous personal growth.

In this final week, you'll:

  • Craft a clear vision for your future as a partner in love and life.

  • Create a plan to keep growing personally after the program.

  • Stay accountable to maintaining the relationship you’ve built.

In this final week, you'll:

  • Craft a clear vision for your future as a partner in love and life.

  • Create a plan to keep growing personally after the program.

  • Stay accountable to maintaining the relationship you’ve built.

MODULE 12:
Creating a Vision for Partnership and Personal Growth

Develop a long-term action plan for sustaining love and continuous personal growth.

My Coaching Approach

STEP 1

DISCOVER

Uncover your relationship patterns and what truly drives your desires.

STEP 2

ALIGN

Connect your personal goals with your strengths for a balanced love life.

STEP 3

TRANSFORM

Shift into a confident, emotionally aware man ready for lasting love.

Free of Cost Add-ons to Accelerate your Journey:


Book your call now and get these free bonuses to help you move faster and make smart decisions from day one.

Bonus 1

A step-by-step guide to boost client loyalty and lifetime value — so you’re not always chasing new leads.

Bonus 2

A quick-reference tool to handle unexpected challenges with clarity and confidence.

Bonus 3

Track your key numbers and make informed decisions — without needing a finance degree.

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐘𝐨𝐮'𝐥𝐥 𝐄𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞.

Over 8 transformative weeks, we'll journey through:

Week 1

Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep falling for the same emotionally unavailable partner, this is the week it all starts to click.

You’ll finally:

✓ See the hidden emotional blueprint that’s secretly driving your relationship choices.

✓ Pinpoint the triggers that hijack your reactions—and how to stop them.

✓ Get crystal clear on what you actually need (and deserve) in love.

Week 2

Break the Cycle (For Good This Time)

It’s not “just bad luck” - you’ve been stuck in a pattern. But this week? We shatter it.

This is where transformation begins:

✓ Identify the old love story that’s been sabotaging your happiness.

✓ Let go of emotional baggage that keeps attracting the wrong people.

✓ Start fresh—with new beliefs and healthier wiring for love.

Week 3

Boundaries That Don’t Push People Away

Tired of feeling walked over—or worse, like you're too "much"? This is your turning point.

We’ll help you

✓ Set boundaries that feel authentic and empowering.

✓ Speak your truth without guilt or second-guessing.

✓ Protect your peace—without building emotional walls.

Week 4

Emotional Intelligence for Deep Love

Real connection requires emotional mastery—and this week, you’ll get the tools.

You'll learn how to:

✓ Read between the lines and spot what your partner really needs.

✓ Respond in a way that builds closeness, not conflict.

✓ Stay present even when emotions run high.

Week 5

Talk So They’ll Really Hear You

Because sometimes the right words are the difference between distance and deep connection.

You’ll master

✓ Asking for what you need—without fear or resentment.

✓ Handling hard conversations without things blowing up.

✓ Turning tension into trust and mutual understanding.

Week 6

Fall in Love With Yourself (First)

You are the love of your life—and it’s time you started acting like it.

This week helps you

✓ Silence that inner critic once and for all

✓Build rock-solid confidence from the inside out.

✓ Become the kind of person who attracts (and keeps) healthy love.

Week 7

Build a Vision That Calls In Real Love

No more settling. It’s time to raise the bar and call in something extraordinary.

This week, we’ll:

✓ Define what true love means to YOU (not anyone else).

✓ Clear limiting beliefs about what’s possible.

✓ Craft a love vision so magnetic, it pulls the right people in.

Week 8

Step Into the Love Life You Deserve

This isn’t a fantasy—it’s your new normal.

You’ll walk away with:

✓ A personalized roadmap for lasting love

✓ Confidence to navigate dating and relationships with ease.

✓ A whole new story—written by you, not your past.

My 𝐂𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡:

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Release old relationship patterns so you can see love's true potential.

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Become the man who attracts lasting love.

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🏆 Men’s Relationship Mentor
🎤 Success and Love Strategist

📖 Confidence Builder

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”


—Winston Churchill

🏆 Men’s Relationship Mentor
🎤 Success and Love Strategist

📖 Confidence Builder

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”


— Winston Churchill